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One of the first things we do when we walk into the ballroom of the wedding is take a glance of the cake, and then take a picture of it. Well, if you have the pleasure of seeing one of these cakes at a wedding, you definitely don’t want to miss it. I’m talking about hand-painted wedding cakes. This is a new trend and if you can find a great baker who can paint, you’re in luck. These cakes are a work of art and sometimes even a shame to cut! What I love most about these is that you will most likely never see a duplicate. You can take a piece of fabric or create your story, and put it on … cake. Below are images from Maggie Austin (located in Washington, D.C.) and Nevie Pie Cakes (located in the UK):
Spring is finally here! With that, we think of fun colors and we think of PINK! For a classic spring wedding incorporate your pinks without the overkill making it look like a bridal or baby shower. To do this, stay away from mixing your lighter pinks with your brights. Try not to do stark white cloths against crazy big pink centerpieces and hot pink napkins as this can create an imbalance. Work with your florist to stay consistent in your shades! It is best to keep neutral/earthy tones to tone down the pink but give enough color to pick up your concept. To go a different route you can keep your flowers and table settings at a color minimum but work with your lighting to bring the pink in that way if you have this opportunity. It will create a very modern and fun vibe to your wedding. Below is a picture that I thought gives a good point of direction. The main goal is to keep it tasteful and neutral. After all, it’s his wedding too ;)
Weddings can be expensive but what many like to focus their money on is the entertainment and food. Priorities are spread differently depending on the couple but what many brides would agree about is how they cant fathom spending all that money for a dress they’d wear for one night.
We can all appreciate a beautiful dress (especially me) and many brides will state “my dress is non-negotiable, I don’t care what it costs.” But for those who don’t have that sort of luxury, where can you go?
All bridal boutiques that carry different collections will usually range between $2,000 and up. They want your business and will help you in any way possible. Let them know what your real budget is (with tax)- do not lie about it, and they will guide you in the right direction and help you any way they can. I promise!
If you still have not found what you’re looking for at your price, fear not ladies - there are answers and options out there! You can get a very beautiful and quality gown. It takes work and patience but I promise it will pay off. You can shop the web, sample sales, off-the-rack, and more!
Shopping the web: There are so many flash sites out there so you have to get lucky on the size. I don’t recommend purchasing from flash sites because the return policy is not easy or even an option. My recommendation is http://www.shopbop.com/ or http://www.theaislenewyork.com/. Shopbop has a great return policy which is 30 days (and free returns within 15 days). Their gowns (which include Marchesa and Reem Acra) usually range anywhere from $198 to $5,995. The Aisle New York has a tighter 5 day return policy and their gowns often range from $899 - $2999. Both websites have fabulous gowns for a simpler bride who don’t want too much fuss. Please be aware that their stock is always changing, so check them out on the daily.
Sample Sales: Sample sales are easier for those who are located in the NYC area simply because most of the designers are centered here. The great thing about sample sales, is that most of these gowns are right off the runway and may need a few fix ups here and there but for these high end designers, this is a steel. The quality will be there and you’ll be paying a fraction of the cost. The best way to find when a sample sale is happening is to google it, and you will be able to find what you need. Often times, NY Mag or Time Out NY will have a schedule posted.
Off-the-rack: Very similar to sample sales, but this would be your opportunity to go into your favorite wedding boutique and buy a gown right off their rack if they will be able to part with it. Usually you’d save about half the money and you would be able to use their private seamstresses for fittings. If you can fit into the samples (which is usually a bridal 8 or 10) you may have hit the jackpot. Always ask, it can’t hurt!
Non-Bridal Stores: Many of you may or may not know but both Nordstrom and J. Crew have bridal departments in which have great dresses at a very reasonable price. Not all Nordstrom locations have the bridal salon, so I recommend going to their website and check the store details of the one nearest you to see if the “wedding suite” is listed. Their gowns range from $200 to $4,995 and do require an appointment if you would like to try on. If not, they have an open department in which you can freely look. You can also check out http://shop.nordstrom.com/ as they have an extremely flexible return policy. J. Crew have a very urban look to their collection but it’s worth looking into, including their bridesmaids dresses while you’re at it. They don’t have many bridal locations (the one in NYC is located at 1035 Madison Ave) but they have some options online which range from $298 to $3,000. You can purchase online at http://www.jcrew.com and can return within 60 days to any J. Crew location, even if they don’t carry bridal.
I hope this list has helped you in some way. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you need any more help! Happy shopping!
Many a times we look back at old photographs and cannot believe what we see and how anyone could have worn what they did. But not Grace Kelly. She was the absolute epitome of a flawless bride. Check out the photographs below - and her tiny waist!
She was absolutely beautiful and the lace gown and veil complimented (not overwhelmed) her. This look is nothing short of classic and elegant. Clearly exemplified here. And of course, perfect for a royal.
Many brides choose to purchase their gowns through e-commerce (new or used), sample sales, and off the rack leaving the bride to find her own source for alterations. No matter how you purchase your dress it is extremely important to trust your seamstress.
With poor alterations your gown will not look the way it should at its best. Even if you spent $10,000 on your gown - bad alterations will leave it looking like you spent $10. Think about it like a diamond. The better the setting, the greater the sparkle. Good alterations will not leave you pulling up your strapless gown all night, baggy in the bodice, and your bustle should not be falling. My advice is that if you go this route, do not take your gown to the person who hems your pants or even the same person who’s done your past bridesmaids dresses.
If your gown does not come with boning, ask your seamstress if they can add it in. This will give your dress shape and correct structure. Your dress should be completely fitted against your body, giving you the figure you never knew you had.
Need advice on how to search for your seamstress? Just ask!
*tip* For correct length and anti-tripping when walking, make sure the very tip of your shoe peeps through the hem line of your dress
Something old, something new, something borrowed, something BLUE. What can you do that’s blue? Well, lots of things actually! Some girls sew blue ribbon into the dress, go for blue shoes or blue undergarments. If you’re not the type to wear anything like that, then how about sewing in the date of your wedding inside your gown?
I’ve seen this and its quite charming. If you have a seamstress who’s unable to do this type of embroidery directly inside the lining of the dress then you can buy a small handkerchief, have it embroidered in blue, and then ask your seamstress to sew it into your dress. It will give your dress an extra special meaning.
Many women feel that they need to try every dress in the world before buying “the one.” Ladies - don’t stress yourself this way. This will lead to confusion, frustration, and ultimately will take the experience away.
If you find a gown you love, stop right there. There’s no point in seeing if there is something different you’ll love more. If you go in that direction, you’ll never find it and may end up settling for something you didn’t want in the first place. I’ve seen it.
Finding a dress for your body is important so if you’re unsure of where to begin try on one of each kind of silhouette. Once you start you can scale it down to what compliments your figure. It will make the process much easier. From there you can get into the nitty gritty with details and embellishments.
You may have to only try 1, 2, 5, or even 25 dresses. The point is - once you have found the gown for you, look no further and buy it! Take my advice and your shopping experience will be a happier and more pleasant one.
I’ve seen it, I’ve heard it, and yes if it’s done right - it’s beautiful. I’m talking about the “black & white” wedding theme. To achieve this look successfully you don’t need to put a black sash on your dress or a white sash on your bridesmaids dresses. Keep it simple. The main color of your wedding should be white/ivory and only accented with black. Fill the room up with candles and for the flowers - keep it white/ivory and throw in a little bit of greenery (trees, the stems of the flowers, etc) to keep it natural looking. It won’t take away from what you’re going for.
If you start doing black and white patterns everywhere you might make your guests a little dizzy and your pictures may look like a puzzle. Leave that part to the cake because sometimes, less is more.
I truly believe that a wedding should be about you and your partner. Lets face it, your parent(s) had their time, and now its yours. When it comes to your dress, accessories, and color, make sure you keep yourself in check by doing what you love. On a daily basis you can make any decision you like and that shapes who you are, so why should your wedding be any different?
I have plenty of brides who don’t want to disappoint their mothers by not trying on certain gowns or not having their hair up with a crown in their hair. My advice is to have a calm conversation prior to shopping explaining to whomever you are with what you are going for and what you envision. Shopping for your wedding dress should be one of the most fun things about your wedding. This is what you envisioned yourself in! Don’t let the stress and anger get to you. Don’t ruin what it’s all about: YOU! If you want to go short - go short. If you want lace - go lace. If you want simplicity - no bead work. Every gown is beautiful in it’s own way. Make it yours.
Moms - feel free to email me to blow off steam. Don’t make your daughters break out in hives. I’ve seen it, it’s not pretty.
*tip* hire a private bridal consultant/stylist to make this an easier process ;)